We’ve all been left on read before, and it’s not a good feeling. You’ve heard the obvious advice like workout, smile, improve your hygiene, and all that other shit, but nothing seems to be working. Well let me tell you why girls don’t like you:

#1) First of all, you’re fucking boring.

You probably don’t do much outside of work, school, or sleep.

You don’t have any substance to work with.

You don’t have a hobby.

By practicing a hobby, you:

• Make yourself memorable – everybody remembers the guy making computers in his spare time, but never the computer engineer
• Meet more people and practice your social skills – even if you’re just talking to cashiers at your local hobby shop, it’s an improvement
• Have an interesting topic to talk about – you don’t want to talk about it 24/7, but it’s a way to display passion and carry a conversation

People, especially girls, love passionate individuals. It shows charisma.

Plus, you might find a career out of it later in life!

But how do you find a hobby?

Well, if you’re reading this article, you probably don’t have much passion to begin with. My recommendation is to throw everything at the wall and see what sticks. Most hobbies are things you’d never expect to enjoy.

You’ll know you’re on the right track if it keeps you up at night thinking about it.

And I’ll give you another hint: video games are not a hobby. Don’t kid yourself. Everyone plays video games nowadays, and the skills they teach you don’t amass to anything. You’re just wasting valuable time.

Girl: “So what do you do for fun?”

You: “I play video games for 7 hours a day.”

Girl: “Wow… that’s cool..”

I don’t care if you collect newspapers or practice extreme ironing. Just don’t pick video games. It’s a bad decision.

One of my friends loves Legos. He’s 21… And he’s a lady’s man.

Other than video games, don’t worry about what people think. Do what you love, and it will come out in your personality.

#2) You don’t treat girls like people.

You’re the type of dude who either

• Puts girls on a pedestal and laughs at everything they say, or
• Reads Red Pill articles and treats women like objects.

Grow the fuck up.

Women are people just like you and me. They don’t want nice guys, and they don’t want douchebags. They want genuine people.

“Nah, you’re just a pussy boy. Girls want guys who treat them like shit. Trust me. I’ve fucked over 20 girls this month.”

-Brad, a Red Pill douchebag

Look, buddy. I’ve been on the Red Pill before for a whole year. I know it works – but only on very, very broken girls. If you want to go fuck some crazy girls, make literally zero genuine friends, and feel lonely all the time then be my guest. But that’s not what we do here.

And on the other hand, stop being so nice to girls. Don’t let them walk all over you. If you wouldn’t do something for a guy friend, then you definitely shouldn’t do it for a girl.

Intoxicate girls by being amazing, not with alcohol or manipulation.

That’s what a real Chad would do.

Don’t focus everything on gaining girls – that should be your secondary. Putting everything into the chase will make you desperate, and girls can smell that from a mile away.

The truth is, most ladies’ men don’t even care if they get girls. They’d rather get in that extra lift or complete another sale. It makes girls (and guys!) feel like you are a man of self control and societal worth.

Treat girls like people. Not puzzles to solve.

#3) You aren’t trustworthy.

All girls have trust issues. It’s built into their genes, and for good reason! It goes back to evolution.

Since females were (generally) weaker than males, they had to learn which males they could trust. One wrong decision could cost them their lives.

Nowadays it’s not that extreme, but that instinct is still there. The easiest way to lose a girl is to lose her trust.

One way to gain girls’ trust is to be genuine by presenting your motives clearly through your actions. This is hard to do, but the best methods I’ve found are through humor and compassion.

All right I’ve got stuff to do. I’ll post more later!

Good luck out there guys.

-Mark